A student receives an interesting master's thesis offer but is faced with a difficult question. What would you do if you were Sonja? Or if you were the staff member guiding Sonja? Have you experienced similar feelings? How have you reacted? Share your thoughts with your colleagues or students! With collagues in academic setting the topic of the discussion can be linked to academic advising and the role and borders of staff members in guidance work. One can also discuss the link between student values and career choices. With students the topic of the discussion can be linked to career choices, values and meaningfulness. Keep the questions open so there is space for a variety of experiences in the resonance of the audience. Use safer space policies. Suggested facilitation attached.